/r9k/ can't solve your problems

sounds to me like she was bored and picked someone who would have no social influence in order to make herself feel better. Women stop liking guys usually because they feel they have nothing in common anymore. She'll do it to you again, don't go back to her unless you want to be hurt. Obviously you bore her

Also stop posting shit

You realize there is a /adv/ board for you to bleed about your problems right?

well to be frank you couldnt offer what someone else could. whether it was the chase, money, drive in life. like someone else said it could have been boredom. treating a girl like a princess isnt a guarantee that its gonna last either.

Become acquainted with your left hand.

so you've broken up. no longer together as a dating pair. just friends with benefits.

she has sex with someone who's not you. i understand that must have hurt a lot. when i found out my ex was fucking someone new i broke my hand by punching my wall which was a dumb thing to do.

anyways yes it hurts. but you were broken up. no longer together. so it's ok if she fucks someone else, she's allowed to, you two aren't dating anymore. yes it sucks it hurts and maybe she's a bitch for it, but it doesn't matter. she didn't actually do anything wrong.

and this guy you beat up for having sex with her. he's just a loser who got lucky, it's nothing personal against you. if you were in his position would you be like "sorry i can't have sex with you because you have an ex boyfriend". seriously man you had no right to beat him up.

well when i said i treated her good i didn't mean that i beat on her or did anything stupid like some jerks do - i never laid a hand on her or shit like that but i didn't necessarily treat her like she was god 24/7 either i guess it was a happy medium. The only time we ever fought was when she was being controlling thats actually why we broke up in may, she bitched about me being a vol. firefighter (which i have been all my life) and just bitched about everything under the sun, it was like a super-mega period... but after we decided to take a break and she thought i was messin around with one of my friends (who i wasn't cause she's datin my cousin) she came back... then she left after she found out there was no threat. Its almost like I'm gettin the impression she just wants me to be miserable no matter what or something to that effect.

you're young. not a middle aged faggot going through a divorce

quickest way to get over a woman is other women

>>5530448

Kill her then kill yourself

I'm just looking for advice and words of encouragement about my current sucky ass love life.

We were friends with benefits for a while during our break up... but now she's all about this douche bag, which with a breakup and everything i mean - hey shit happens. its just all the lying and deception from her that is pissing me off now i think... like tellin me how much she still loves me and wants me and junk and then she's fuckin this guy and datin him and junk.

YEH! This is the relationshit i come to this board for.

Let's all write 3000 words each on every minute detail of our relationships then we can spend 200 replies talking about all of our complex emotions!

FUCK YEH! Then we can all post AIM and suck each other's dicks. Go /r9k/! 4chan's home of relationshit!

>>5530659
I would have done that be they done fucked so its too late - its not like i'm keeping her pure (pure as in only fucking one person) lol.

>>5530688

look man i hear that and imma let you finish

but women are almost all like this to some extent. they are drama machines. you can either learn to not let it hurt you as much. realizing that she's just being a woman and it's natural when shes a bitch.

or you have to give up on having relationships.

because women are kinda crazy. they are wild, emotional, cruel, naturally bi-polar, full of deception and drama. very few women overcome their natural behaviors to act normal.

i know this my sound like some kind of conspiracy theory from some bitter virgin neckbeard or something. but trust me, i didn't believe all women could be like this at first either. but after a couple gf's, and after extensive internet research, you begin to reluctantly realize that it's true. bitches be crazy and it's a sad fact of life.

You sound like an idiot. Why did you beat up the guy when you were mad at the girl?

>>5530785

I hear ya and totally agree with you... If I didn't have a fear of being lonely,depression, a high sex drive and if girls didn't have vaginas I probably wouldn't even talk to them.

>>5530811
Cause I'm not a woman beater - plus I've hated the kid for a really long-ass time and this just gave me even more of a reason to whoop up on his ass.

I don't understand why guys beat up guys fucking their girls. If it happened, then your girl wasn't really the girl for you anyways.

We are supposed to be bros.


Come on guys, respect eachother for getting that pussy. Don't hate eachother. If I found a guy fucking my girlfriend, I would break up with her, get the guy a beer and be like, lets go find some other hos to fuck.

>>5530890

If its love, you fight for what you love and what you believe in... I've only fought three times in my life, this being the third. You know the saying... Guns don't kill people, husbands who come home early do. Can you honestly say that if you caught your gf (whom your in a serious long-lasting relationship with) or a wife or whatever fucking someone else you wouldn't be pissed off enough kick ass or even have the slightest urge to kick ass? If the answer is no my second question is do you have any testosterone in you at all or just estrogen? =]

>my virginity

So what? Your virginity isn't a magical golden idol and whoever you give it to has the key to your heart forever and ever and ever. It's sex (usually horrible awkward finish-in-2-minutes sex). Stop being a fucking pussy. And why did you beat up the guy fucking her? He wasn't doing anything wrong, he was just getting some tail. Your girl was the one who wronged you (although technically you weren't dating).

Jesus god lord, grow up.

To be honest anon, you said that your ALREADY getting over her and it's not even been a full day yet, I don't think you love her anymore anyway. Your more likly in love with the IDEA of a relationship with her or something along those lines.

>>5530448
>has a trac phone

won't pay for minutesblox

>>5530890
>>5530951

This is a conundrum - you have to beat someone up, but if you're not certain if the other dude knew about you or was just getting some play. My intuition is to beat the girl, because she's the only one who's definitely being malicious, but you can't beat girls, can you? Fuck that noise.

>>5530977
It hurts, yes.
Am I over her, no.
Am I trying, yes - I'm trying my hardest.

she is a whore, leave her, BTW, he might have nothing, but he does have your girl. get over it, it will take a few years.